Flying Monkeys Denied is a C-PTSD and
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Website
Thursday, August 3,
2017
When Mommy Dearest demands attention by manufacturing chaos and
triangulating, expect the world around her to literally be expected to stop
spinning. Mommy Dearest wants not only her offspring but anyone who knows her
to truly believe their personal needs and desires will never matter as much as
the social obligation to indulge her every demand, irrational desire, or whim.
Desperate for attention and thriving on creating the illusion
that their needs are the only ones that ever truly matter during any event or
social experience, the Cluster B female who thinks of
herself as the Matriarch of any peer group of socially enamored people or a
toxic family unit tends to suck the metaphoric and energetic air out of
literally any room or person she targets for a “visit”.
Women who are egocentric and self-absorbed tend to have a
pervasive sense of grandiosity, as well. If they seek to attention seek by
lying to and manipulating other people in order to place themselves in the
middle of a manufactured triangulation they
themselves created, they are likely to have power and control issues. If they
can triangulate abuse targets — making them fear and mistrust one another while
hindering or outright preventing contact between the parties — they truly are
able to pretend they are master puppeteers.
The strings they tug the hardest tend to be gossamer thread
cords run through the heart of their own children. The problem is, the feeling
of wanting to please or care for the child himself or herself is seldom the
goal of a parent consumed with egocentrism and prone to thinking of themselves
as grandiose individuals.
If they, meaning toxic mother figures, gaslight and feign a need
for someone like a romantic partner, child, friend, casual acquaintance, or
neighbor to drop everything in their own life and neglect themselves, their career, and their own friends and
family to come running to the side of the narcissistic social predator every
time they claim they have an emergency or crisis that must be tended to “right
away” — understand what’s going on with them is a different mechanism entirely.
The more extreme the narcissistic dysfunction, the more likely
the toxic person is going to be to bend or twist the facts and truth to mislead
any listener intentionally into believing that the Narcissist’s need for
constant control and attention is more important or pressing than whoever they
have targeted for social use.
The abuse happens when the predator misleads to net gain a
humanitarian response from someone they HOPE will be easy to lie to and to
manipulate.
By dropping everything going on in your life and rushing to
alleviate the Narcissist’s feigned distress, the game is afoot — and you, the
targeted mark, took the bait.
The faster you leap to assist, they see weakness and someone so
“pathetic” that the new narrative a Narc will typically spin about you for
making yourself available is that somehow you are a lost soul, desperate for
attention and affection yourself.
Why?
So they can con Flying Monkeys into abusing targets by proxy.
Their default social behavior is to strive to manipulate other people’s
behavior by doing or saying things to foster sibling rivalry, to triangulate —
say — a spouse or grandchild against the toxic elders adult child, or to foster
such extreme alienation between a prospective whistleblower and anyone who might
otherwise be willing to show the truth teller compassion that anyone who would
dare to have the audacity to tell the truth about the parent having a
proclivity to covertly or to situationally abuse that the innocent party
telling the whole truth and nothing but the truth after taking a faith-based
oath to share details with veracity is likely to be disbelieved entirely by all
others.
The Verbal Abuser, gaslighting anyone
who is foolish enough to stop to take the time to listen to what the word
spinning pathological social competitor has to say, wants everyone to truly
believe their victims are cray-cray. While adult children do their best to make
sure all their toxic parent’s needs are met at the expense of themselves, the
toxic parent could literally care less.
Utterly unpleasable, the more adult children tend to do for them
in order to make their lives better or easier, the less likely the child’s
adult human efforts are to ever be acknowledged or appreciated. The more you
give, the more they take — that’s the Cluster B
behavior kids groomed for a lifetime to enable toxic people during the
Abusers’s senior years tend to unintentionally socially as well as to
physically facilitate.
When Mommy Dearest starts manufacturing chaos because they are
attention-seeking, expect them to self-create insane levels of time-wasting in
the lives of whomever they recruit to take their “boy who cried wolf” claims
they need time-sensitive help or attention seriously.
Triangulating and positioning themselves as the ONLY person
their targeted and gaslit children and social supporters come to for help
communicating with OTHER abuse targets positions them to share information to
bait, provoke, mislead, and gaslight without the people they manipulate ever
typically having a chance to compare notes about claims the pathological lying
parent or anti-social senior citizens make when and if they make it to
grandparent status or active old age.
By implying you — rather than they — are the socially deficient
person… they get a tremendous sense of power. Because their core values are
different, Cluster
B people tend to physically derive a sense of
pleasure from abusing and conning, pretending they are the victim and that the
people they target for harm “deserve” whatever random “punishment” (typically
for nothing) they choose to on a whim to dish out.
Again, by granting you the opportunity to cater to their needs
and to wait on them hand and foot while they offer nothing positive to say to
or about you before, during, or after you show up to help that somehow the
targeted and wholly psychologically duped and manipulated mark should be
thanking them for allowing them to abuse hospitality by free will choice.
The trouble is, once you KNOW what they are doing… there’s no
escaping the reality that by enabling a dysfunctional pattern to form between
people that it takes the victim’s willingness to expose themselves socially to
the Cluster
B person to turn the target into a WILLFUL Enabler.
Does that mean that the Narcissistic is not karmically
responsible for concocting an attention-demanding, power and control rooted
scheme to force a romantic interest, “friend”, or family member to PROVE their
loyalty by being willing to bend over backward to capitulate to their demands
without regard to their own needs or best interest? Nope. What it does mean is
this…
Abusers are responsible morally, psychologically, physically,
and socially for behaving like con artists and abusive provocateurs.
·
Their target’s task is to realize that the
predator is seeking attention due to their own socially immature needs.
·
The target’s task is to listen to the request
with an intent to understand (if and when it’s appropriate), but to learn how
to use gray rock skills to assess the situation on a minute to minute and
hourly basis.
·
The target is tasked with the challenge of
learning how to set and enforce their own healthy lifestyle boundaries.
Now, obviously, if a pipe burst in the wall at mom’s house and
you have a vested interest in maintaining the home in a proper condition… that
might be a great reason to drop everything on your personal agenda and make a
trip to her place to shut off the water valve and to help clean up while you
wait for someone else (like Service Master pros and a Plumber) to come and
provide truly needed assistance.
But when mom is doing things like calling one person and asking
them to come over to put something on the highest possible shelf in the kitchen
with the express intent of the minute they walk out of the door she calls
someone else to come IMMEDIATELY — this minute, this hour, this day, this
second — to come to help her get the object down from the shelf because unless
you cancel that crucial job interview or you skip that critical lecture at
college or you have to cancel plans you already made that other people were counting
on you for just so you can PROVE your loyalty to them?
All based on a manufactured attention demanding con — wasting
the time of the first person who was recruited to place the item on the shelf
too high for her to reach easily or safely without assistance then completely
misleading and disrespecting the second mark by forcing them to drop everything
to come running… literally… for no earthly reason other than the predator is
bored and a liar…
Then.
Then you know the person you are dealing with is not simply
afflicted with nurtured Narcissism.
They are likely to be escalating in their dysfunction, their
neuroplasticity is calcifying, and it’s time for you — their Narcissistic
Supply Source — to decide if being their energetic snack is, for your own best
interest or theirs, pragmatically speaking in any way advised.
Before you leap to assist when the toxic mother or “The Boy Who
Cried Wolf” starts spinning a yarn about being in crisis, do consider why
stress illnesses form.
If you can learn how to go gray rock psychologically and not be
emotionally or psychologically manipulated… if you choose to assist them at a
time you decide is convenient, they are likely to see your healthful choice to
self-advocate while still being willing to provide companion care as betrayal.
Once they suspect you have given any credence to your own needs whatsoever, if
they are Cluster
B they will feel as if they have lost control.
§ They are
likely to be verbally abusive, to provoke, and to strive to bait when and if
you arrive to assist.
§ They are
likely to be unsatisfied with whatever you do strive to do in order to make
their life better.
§ They are
not satisfied with any offer to spend time with them, to financially assist, or
to provide physical assistance care-taking or providing companion assistance.
§ They
expect complete and total submission, for their needs to be met in such a way
that everyone else’s are wholly invalidated as even being a human right to
have, and they demand 100% of their Enablers psychological, physical, social,
and emotional time to be spent thinking about the needs of the predator.
Anything less, the toxic person will claim they are being victimized and
neglected.
See the pattern? They demand you live inside their own
psychologically created and defined box.
Even while you are alone, away from them, if you are reading
here striving to cope with feeling victimized, they have you under their spell
completely.
At no time in a narcissistic parent’s life is anything ever
about anything except themselves. They live to divide and conquer their
children, their adult family members, their so-called “friends”, neighbors,
community members, and anyone willing to allow them the opportunity to
gaslight, con, and woo them.
Acting like spoiled bratty irrational and completely egocentric
monsters, they avoid having to take time out and self-reflect about their own
free will choices regarding how they mindfully, deliberately, and purposefully
choose to behave in relation to others. If they lie to convince you that
they are in crisis — including gaslighting to mislead,
con, or dupe — understand they are displaying anti-social, conscience-free
personality traits.
If you are the offspring of a toxic parent and have not turned
out to be abusive by nature, understand they are likely to see you as their
failure.
Understand from a rational and logical perspective that how much
time you spend thinking about the narcissistic person’s words or needs are
seconds of your life you will never have the opportunity to get back again.
If you are psychologically enmeshed with your toxic mother or an
abusive dad, if all you do is think of them and what they did or did not do or
say over the course of your relationship with them, you are (from a
neurological perspective) under their social and biological control.
Even if you physically go no contact… if you are still lending
subjective credibility to anything a hospitality abusing, self-promoting,
self-aggrandizing, duplicitous and overwhelmingly
toxic egocentric and tunnel-visioned person who is prone to manufacturing chaos
in the lives of other people in order to dominate them and force them into
submission?
Might want to re-think whether or not showing up at their door
when they point and snap is passively allowing them to incur more karma for
themselves before their death.
If reading that statement gave you pause — it should. And here’s
why.
In a healthy relationship, both parties seek to communicate.
Both people also tend to have absolute social and emotional respect for the
other.
Healthy people understand that when one person talks, if they
themselves are healthy, they are likely proffering insight into themselves as a
gift. When a healthy person speaks to another, their core nature tends to be
empathetic by nature… and social skills like learning to be polite, mannerly,
sensitive to other people’s needs and experiences, and having an interest in
learning about others are natured habitual responses to social cues and biological
prompts.
When a parent-child relationship is healthy, neither party are
expected to abandon their own fundamental human rights.
Child abuse happens when a child’s needs are neglected. Child
abuse happens when a child is treated like a slave to a parent — an owned piece
of property without a right to life or to have and or to express feelings or
emotionally intelligent insights of their own without the toxic parent withholding even more affection than they normally do or they rage.
In a relationship where the power balance is likely to favor the
elder, it’s not because of a moral iniquity. Parents are older. They tend to
have more money and life experience than a newborn.
Kids who are emotionally immature are likely to come to expect
things from a parent like money, access to home goods and the parent’s home,
car, and personal belonging use. If a child is over the age of 6 and behaving
this way, a serious lifelong habit of devaluing people who are hospitable
towards others with loving intent is likely already brewing.
Kids who appreciate the time and money their parent spends with
and on them are likely to grow up to be kind, loving, and morally decent people
themselves.
Those who are angry about not
having enough or who find no value in the time and interest and affection a
loving and emotionally healthy parent shows — for whatever reason caused the
dysfunction — are destined to have to figure out what is and or was wrong with
the 9th circle behaviors they chose to engage in alone… meaning all by
themselves.
And that’s okay — because kids who act terribly toward
caregivers and loving people without consequences for betraying the social
compact to value and appreciate others while behaving in a way that a mutually
beneficial relationship forms are likely to become abusive in later life to
their own friends, family, romantic partners, children, grandchildren,
neighbors, strangers, and co-workers.
By neglecting self-care, an abused parent spends a lifetime
giving and giving without being recognized, validated, seen, or considered. The
parent is likely to develop C-PTSD issues that
cause health decline post age 35 that truly compromise their quality of life.
Children who fail to consider their parent’s needs as humans —
rather than simply thinking about their own immediate needs or whims — become
Mommy Dearest and Enabling Henchmen father figures during their adulthood for
this very reason.
Because their own parents failed to nurture compassionate,
non-egocentric related interests or health awareness of pro-social behaviors in
them when they were young, from a neurological perspective their brain and all
conditioned neurologically based social and emotional perspective ended up
maturing and calcifying in a way that biologically is [meaning was] malformed.
In the mind of an abused and emotionally neglected child, the
brain is broken in a different way, hindered from lack of use. People who
enable because they were groomed to take, to overlook, and to tolerate abuse under-utilize
logic and healthy emotional processing centers that are physically present in
the brain’s anatomical structure but fail to develop from under-use.
A child of a toxic parent who is HSP rather than nurtured
Sociopathic tends to develop massive C-PTSD issues over
time. The physical illness takes over the body after the mind, traumatized, is
punished by a parent every time the infant, toddler, or young child seeks to
self-actualize as a sentient being with individual — and therefore equal —
rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
Such a child, once they reach the legal age of maturity, is the
most likely person to be targeted for social and sexual use and abuse by Love
Fraud predators seeking to feather their own nest with a harem of people who have already been groomed to submit.
Understand this…
An abused child who is groomed to enable and has not been
allowed to think about anyone’s needs except their own captors tends to have a
severely malnourished or totally impoverished concept of self. How a child is
groomed to see the world and to interact with other people socially (from a
psychological as well as purely physical perspective) truly matters.
[It does not excuse behavior, having been abused in the
past, but core values and related PTSD issues must be understood to at the very
least a rudimentary degree about all people one encounters on a daily basis in
order to function in harmony without inadvertently causing friction when and if
it one is in a position where one must learn how to predict the everyday
behavior of people.]
A narcissistic person
knows they not only have a self, but that caring for it is likely to support
their own physical, social, and psychological survival. But the child of a
narcissistic person tends to have little to no internal awareness that anyone
except for the abuser or abusers in their life have those same rights to
validation of right to life.
As a child matures,
biology compels them to form an awareness of self. By nurturing the
understanding that the self in each person is of equal spiritual (as well as
biological weight and measure) and coupling the awareness with the idea that to
have a friend one must also BE a friend, children have a chance to grow up
valuing the opportunity to even have a relationship with another person.
Other people include
parents. Other people include children.
Ask yourself this
question…
How many hours of the
day do you believe a person who is egocentric or prone to abusing the
hospitality of others physically spends thinking about the health and wellness
needs of other people?
How many hours of time
in a day do they spend doing things for other people without seeking anything
other than someone else’s gratitude? Not fake appreciation where someone
passively resets the assistance…
We’re talking provable
and readily observable, actual, on their own without prompting or demanding,
self-initiated, emotionally understood, conscious awareness that they had a
need that you showed up and met. Awareness that without other human beings to
connect with on a social and physical level that our lives are likely to feel
solitary, brutish, of poor emotional quality, and to be shorter due to the
damage medically done to a form when the mind fails to nourish it with thoughts
that are warm.
How many hours a day
do you think a hospitality abuser spends doing self-help research on behalf of
another person so the other person does not need to do their own manual labor?
How many hours a day?
How many MINUTES do you think they spend worried about whether or not their
abuse victims feel emotionally supported, whether their preferred scapegoats
and Narcissistic Supply Sources have their personal needs met? How many seconds
do you think they spend thinking that their targeted marks social and emotional
or physical needs are equally as important to validate as their own?
About that…
Self-reflect. Flip the
internal script and self-assess?
How many hours a day
do you devote to striving to please unpleasable people?
What do you get back
from time invested in caring for the needs of a person or peer group that does
not value their relationship with you? What do you get back — meaning
EMOTIONALLY speaking — from a person or peer group that behaves as if they are
entitled to behave in ways that indicate they have an awareness of human
rights… but they are not willing to acknowledge or validate that you, as a
targeted mark or preferred scapegoat, are entitled to have yourself?
What do you get, personally, from associating
socially with other human beings — blood relatives or not — who treat you as if
you are some subpar form of human
How many hours? How many minutes? How many
seconds devoted to striving to meet their needs… to meet their irrational and
abusive demands for attention?
As you sit here reading this article — a
completely healthy place to be — are you reading with an intent to understand
the pattern and social dynamic in order to avoid in enabling perpetuation
of toxic thinking and to avoid slipping inadvertently into enabling your own
dysfunction or are you here striving to understand your parent for their
benefit?
Are you reading self-help literature about
their personality type, astrology sign, numerology chart, MBTI related
literature, developmental psychology, and the like so that you can become a
more compassionate Enabler? Or so you can take personal responsibility for the
conscious development of your own core nature as well as your behaviors?
Because it matters. WHY you read self-help
literature that gives insight into other people’s personality and minds
matters.
The Enabler strives to understand their Abuser
so they can more easily make excuse for other people’s deplorable behavior.
Making excuse employs the use of magical thinking to lay the groundwork
intellectually in the mind and emotional body for the toxic formation of
Cognitive Dissonance — a coping mechanism a broken brain uses to allow them to
remain involved in an unhealthy, dangerous, and dysfunctional relationship.
You pour
your heart out of your chest, a Cluster B person is
likely to treat your sweet self like a maple tree with a tap for sap.
When it
comes to being in a relationship, social predators
like egocentric vertical thinkers typically offer the enabling party no true
care or authentic companionship, intellectually or emotionally speaking,
whatsoever. Using trauma bonding tactics to bind lessers to them by making them
think there is actual mutual care or consideration present, the psychological
vampires rely on their own acting skills and mirroring talents to position themselves as having a right to be
cared for without feeling any social or emotional interest in the needs of
others.
It’s not
personal.
All
emotional vampires suck.
Show up
to help them with that can of soup that Mommy Dearest claims that she cannot
live without you driving across town to take down from the shelf this day or
minute but be prepared to have your consciousness assailed.
Mommy
Dearest will call offspring A and tell them they must have the item put as high
as humanly possible on the shelf. The person who they demand puts it there is
likely to be lied to and about with regard to why they were asked to put it up
there, blamed for making such a foolish decision — one that was never their
idea or decision to do in any way whatsoever, and left clueless about the fact
that their attention seeking parent employed their help in an Abuse By Proxy /
Flying Monkey situation when offspring B or some other preferred scapegoat is
called 10 minutes after they leave and is told that the parent has no idea why
the person they insisted put something of need in a place that is unsafe or
completely inconvenient to reach would so such a thing.
The Mommy
Dearest who cries wolf time and time again and has their attention seeking
pattern rewarded in the Pavlovian sense is likely to have multiple people
enabling them. It’s up to you whether or not you decide to be one of them.
Baiting or provoking phone
call or text arrives? Work the steps.
Gray
rock. Observe. Evaluate. Self-reflect.
Is
mother’s crisis real or manufactured? If you were in her situation, would you
require a person to assist you with the manual labor?
Ask
yourself seriously if you would prefer to help her yourself or if someone other
than you might be a better choice of person for her to ask. If someone else can
do the task — such as calling a cleaning crew to arrive to help with a busted
pipe faster than you — but she insists YOU must be the person to drop
everything and to come running, ask yourself why.
If the
answer is she misses you and does not know how to self-advocate, consider
letting her know you are sending someone to help her today but you have set
aside time to spend with her on a date you confirm in advance and don’t blow
off. If you tell her you will see her on Saturday and she spends time readying
herself and the house, then you don’t bother to show up because your buddy
calls and you want to do something else, understand YOU are abusing HER
hospitality as well.
But if
she lies to person X to recruit them in a scheme to deceive Y followed by them
bad mouthing one or both conned parties to party Z while the gaslighting parent net gains a ton of attention from all three
people and is offered compassionate responses for having been socially or
physically neglected with they weren’t?
Before
all three duped parties are aware that Mommy Dearest is an attention seeking Cluster B with a desire to alleviate her own sense of boredom and
powerlessness related to loss of vitality and sex appeal and professional
viability due to their age, it’s easy to fall for her attention demanding cons.
It’s easy to become an Abuser by Proxy or Flying Monkey yourself by doing
nothing more than responding to her as if her claims she was neglected or
somehow inconvenienced were or are in any way true. It’s easy to quip off, “Why
the heck would he put it up there?” in a critical voice, making an ad hominem
attack on the intelligence and character of an innocent person who was simply
trying to please her.
To please
HER.
Do you
hear that?
To please
her. Not themselves, not for their own sake other than seeking HER validation
that they were successfully able to please her.
There
would have been nothing wrong with them telling her that placing the item on
the lower shelf would be safer, nor would there be anything wrong with them
trying to arrange pantry shelves so that if she was alone she could reach
everything easily without needing to rely on the assistance of another.
But
understand this…
If the
first person manipulated refused to place the item where she demanded — no
matter how nonsensical or obviously being done in order to manufacture an
excuse to abuse the time and hospitality of targeted future others — that
person would be accused of being an abuser. It’s not at all TRUE — but they
would be punished for thinking not only about HER needs but also the
time-related needs of other caregivers.
Best to
let people who feel the need to lie to their children about their every day
needs in order to play mind games while they manufacture chaos for fun to head
off to an assisted living facility. Otherwise, take the pressure off yourself
by going low to no contact.
Bottom
line, parent or not, the person manipulating incurs their own karma. If they
were healthy and truly loved their children or had a functional and working
respect for others, no one would be lied to or have their personal needs
invalidated, cheapened by verbal assault, or
have their time and willingness to care abused or taken advantage of
whatsoever.
If you are
the mom feeling neglected by an adult child or children… consider this fact
before manufacturing a crisis. Try writing them notes and journaling your
experienced diary-letter style. Tell them how you are feeling. Admit to being
in need of things like physical touch — not just a phone call.
A
two-minute hug releases Oxytocin in the mind and bodies of BOTH individuals.
Oxytocin relieves stress and physical tension that are likely to damage the
heart and body if and when the body isn’t able to interact in a loving manner
with at least one or more reciprocally interested and emotionally supportive
humans.
To have a
friend, one must be a friend, but to be a parent, one must simply play a part
in procreation.
Having a
baby no more gives the parent the right to treat the child like chattel than it
gives a child the right to treat their parent as a sub-human every day of their
life. A parent who is caught lying intentionally to deceive and mislead their
own offspring does far more harm to the child than not buying them a fancy and
overpriced new luxury or sports care on a whim or a pony on demand at the ripe
old age of six.
If they
were a stranger or casual acquaintance caught lying one time, any healthy
person would quickly realize that the offender is untrustworthy, socially
dangerous to be around, and every word they say is likely to have been
calculated to manipulate you by deceiving you willfully. Would that be a
person of quality to add to your life — or one likely to abuse your hospitality
pervasively if and when you let them in?
Would that be the kind of person
you want to allow to have private time chattering in the ear of your spouse,
your friends, other family members, your professional contacts… or who you
think would in any way, shape, or form be a healthy or safe influence to have
around your children?
By
accepting Cluster
B parents as they are for what they are and
electing to distance ourselves at a safe distance from them, we — as adult
children of toxic parents — might make them angry, but at the very least we show respect for our elders by making pro-social
choices. Honor thy father and thy mother are only words as a legally binding
contract when and if they reciprocally honor their responsibility to parent in
a pro-social manner.
Tolerating
abuse is in and of itself passively baiting the Abuser
to incur increasingly damaging layers of karma. It’s not loving to allow a
toddler to abuse a classmate or sibling; a responsible human being with healthy
respect for themselves and others is morally compelled to strive to shift the
pattern while offering the out of control toddler an opportunity to learn from
the situation in such a way that their own needs get met without traumatizing
other people or invalidating the fundamental human rights of the world’s most
compassionate others.
You
observe, you self-reflect, and if there is something you can do or say to help
everyone involved in the social situation at hand, you volunteer to assist. You
are not a primate. You are an ANT.
When
Mommy Dearest rages or pulls a bout of hysteria that amounts to nothing more
than putting on a stage act while they pretend to be angry, in need, or as if they are sincerely misunderstanding
or unaware of the needs of others… they are behaving like Love Fraud predators.
If you grant credibility to the assertion of a person willing to lie or mislead
someone in order to get their own needs for attention in order to alleviate
nothing more than profound existential boredom met because sometimes the Abuser
is fun to be with… yikes.
Consider
this article as granting you permission to think critically about why you
remain socially as well as psychologically enmeshed. We are not encouraging
anyone to abandon their family or an elderly parent… what we are suggesting is
that Cluster
B parents require a different social and emotional
approach to management.
Plato's Stunt Double
DISCLOSURE: The author
of this post is in no way offering professional advice or psychiatric
counseling services. Please contact your local authorities IMMEDIATELY if you feel
you are in danger. If you suspect your partner, a loved one, co-worker, or
family member has a Cluster B personality disorder, contact your local victim's
advocate or domestic violence shelter for more information about how to protect
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In support of Narcissistic
Abuse awareness and recovery.
June
1st is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness
Day (WNAAD).
Recommended
websites for research and recovery:
http://www.wnaad.com/
http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/
http://www.innerintegration.com/
http://www.drgeorgesimon.com/
https://kimsaeed.com/
https://www.psychopathfree.com/
https://eclecticalu.blogspot.com/
https://micheleleenieves.com/
https://www.thriveafterabuse.com/
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#Narcissist #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder
#NarcissisticSupply #Psychopath #PsychopathFree
#SmearCampaign #Sociopath #ThrivingAfterNarcissisticAbuse #TwoFaced #WNAAD
