Both reading and writing
are experiences – lifelong – in the course of which we who encounter words used
in certain ways are persuaded by them to be brought mind and heart within the
presence, the power, of the imagination.
With so much reading
ahead of you, the temptation might be to speed up.
But in fact it’s essential
to slow down and read every word.
Because one important thing that can be
learned by reading slowly is the seemingly obvious but oddly underappreciated
fact that language is the medium we use in much the same way a composer uses notes,
the way a painter uses paint.
I realize it may seem obvious, but it’s
surprising how easily we lose sight of the fact that words are the raw material
out of which literature is crafted.
You don’t have to
purposely cause physical harm to another human being to be a sociopath. No, a
person can do it the “clean” way by taking your life apart, piece by piece.
This includes the final cruelty of leaving you psychologically broken and
financially ruined. I have heard too many of these life stories and it is vital
that we understand how this happens and to reach out to those who have been
left behind with unbearable traumas and sorrows that wound the heart… All sociopaths
are narcissists. They have no conscience, no empathy, no mercy.
–
Linda Martinez-Lewi, PhD.
If they are stupid
enough to stray and cheat
be smart enough to walk away and let them go
permanently.
Be careful who you
confide in or vent to.
A listening ear may also be a running mouth.
Enablers
& Flying Monkeys act on behalf of the Narcissist.
Everyone is in favor of
free speech. Hardly a day passes without its being extolled, but some people's
idea of it is that they are free to say what they like, but if anyone else says
anything back, that is an outrage.
– Winston Churchill.
Intelligence is the
ability to adapt to change.
– Stephen Hawking.
I really think a
champion is defined not by their wins, but by how they can recover when they
fall.
– Serena Williams.
The only way to win with
a toxic person is not to play.
The final stage of
healing is using what happens to you to help other people.
That is healing in
itself.
- Gloria Steinem.
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In support of Narcissistic Abuse awareness and recovery. June 1st is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day (WNAAD). Recommended websites for research and recovery: